Friday, February 3, 2012

What should I do if my college roommate is a big bully?

My college roommate has picked on me because he feels that I am soft, socially inept, and fat. He always greets me with degrading names like loser, geekburger, and nerd boy. Whenenever I eat he compares me to big animals such as whales, pigs, and elephants. He also cuffs me in the head, sting my neck or ear with a rubber band, and throws water balloons at me when im using my tv or the computer. I also have to spend alot of money because he throws away my food and I have to now buy out breakfast or dinner instead of store the food in our fridge and cook.
What should I do if my college roommate is a big bully?
I don't know what school you're at so I can't give you a specific link--but one idea is to do a Google search using the term "residential life" and your school's name. That should get you to the right website to find out who is in charge of housing to file papers to make a change. Make sure they know it is because of bullying. Also, your school may have anti-harassment policies where you can file a complaint. If you're too upset to research this, go to your resident advisor, or the university health service without delay and insist on some help and backup for your problem.



Tell him strongly and firmly to keep his hands to himself because the next time he touches you or hits you with something, you are going to file a criminal complaint against him for battery. Then call the campus police and do it.
Reply:Stand up for yourself.



Don't be soft. If he hits you, defend yourself. IF you really CAN'T defend yourself, call the police and press assault charges - but be careful b/c he'll probably lie about it. you want to have irrefutable proof if possible.



Make it abundantly clear to him that he's to keep his paws OFF your things- period.



Whatever you do, don't take his sh*t. Show yourself some love.



Personally- I'd have whooped his *** the FIRST time he tried to put his hands on me. Even if I didn't win, he'd have felt me.
Reply:Seriously -- how many accounts do you have %26amp; how many times are you going to post this?
Reply:Next time he throws out your food punch him and say, "Quit ******* with my food *****". Don't warn him or else it won't have the same effect. He'll get the message. The thing with fighting is even if you can't win, fighting back is usually enough to get someone to leave you alone. Good luck



**Disclaimer: You should only fight in order to defend yourself
Reply:uuh.. is that really happening!! inform the police or something dude!! or just kick his *** someday, that;ll teach him a lesson. seriously, just go in the room someday and get him from behind and take all ur anger out on him!! AAH!! i want to eat that bastard!
Reply:Are you friggen serious?????



YOU JUST POSTED A QUESTION ABOUT THIS THE OTHER DAY AGO AND THIS IS WHAT YOU PUT HERE IS THE LINK



http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...



Your a low life
Reply:Well that is horrible, he should not be able to treat you that way...what I would do is go to your RA and explian what is going on and maybe you can get a roommate change. If he doesn't help you could always talk to the housing department at your school!!!

Good Luck and keep your head up :)
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